Jordan is a 9-year-old boy who has struggled with persistent anger and defiant behavior over the past year. At home, he frequently argues with his parents about daily routines, such as getting ready for school or turning off video games. When asked to complete chores, Jordan often responds with “You can’t make me,” and refuses to comply. At school, he talks back to teachers, leaves his seat without permission, and becomes easily irritated by classmates. Minor requests like lining up quietly or sharing materials can trigger intense frustration, leading him to slam doors or shout.
Jordan reports feeling like “everyone’s always bossing me around,” and believes adults are unfairly targeting him. He often blames others for conflicts, saying, “It’s not my fault! They started it.” These behaviors have strained his relationships at home and resulted in multiple calls from school, leaving his parents feeling overwhelmed and unsure how to help.
Jordan would benefit from the outlined treatment plan to build emotional regulation skills, improve communication, and strengthen more cooperative interactions with both caregivers and teachers.
Goal 1: Reduce the frequency and intensity of defiant and argumentative behaviors
Objective 1.1: Identify 2-3 common triggers (e.g., transitions, requests, sibling interactions) that reliably precede defiant behavior
Intervention 1.1: Work with Jordan and his parents to keep a simple daily “behavior tracker” noting situations and emotions that occur before defiance
Objective 1.2: Reduce reactiveness when he feels adults make unfair requests by practicing “stop, think, respond” at least 3 times per week
Intervention 1.2: Teach and role-play the “stop, think, respond” strategy in session, using real-life examples from home and school
Goal 2: Improve emotional regulation and frustration tolerance
Objective 2.1: Use one calming strategy (e.g., deep breathing, counting to 10, taking space) during moments of anger at least twice per week
Intervention 2.1: Introduce age-appropriate coping skills, model them in session, and practice through games and structured role-play
Objective 2.2: Label and communicate emotions more accurately in daily situations
Intervention 2.2: Incorporate emotion-identification activities (e.g., “feelings chart,” “stoplight emotions”) and practice linking feelings to behaviors
Goal 3: Strengthen positive parent-child interactions and consistent limit-setting
Objective 3.1: Caregivers will use consistent, predictable consequences for noncompliance and 1–2 positive reinforcement strategies daily
Intervention 3.1: Provide parent management training, including guidance on labeled praise, reward systems, and consistent limit-setting
Objective 3.2: Increase positive interactions between Jordan and caregivers to at least 10 minutes of daily “special time”
Intervention 3.2: Coach parents in implementing structured one-on-one time focused on warmth, connection, and positive attention