Instead of using no-harm contracts, I now rely on evidence-informed, collaborative safety planning approaches. The most foundational tool in my practice is the Stanley-Brown Safety Planning Intervention (SPI), which has strong empirical support and is widely used across clinical settings, including outpatient therapy, crisis response, and primary care.
The SPI is structured yet adaptable, walking clients through six personalized steps:
- Identifying warning signs
- Developing internal coping strategies
- Engaging in social settings or distractions
- Reaching out to supportive contacts
- Contacting professionals or crisis lines
- Reducing access to lethal means
This intervention is client-centered, developed collaboratively in session, and revisited regularly. It doesn't rely on vague promises but instead focuses on concrete, achievable actions.
In addition to SPI, I integrate DBT-informed skills for clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, and I often use motivational interviewing techniques to enhance engagement around safety.
For example, a client recently developed a safety plan that included:
- A daily grounding routine (guided by a self-recorded voice note)
- A photo album of people and places that anchor her emotionally
- A list of “reasons to live” statements in her phone’s notes app
- A plan to temporarily stay with a friend during high-risk periods
It was practical. It was hers. And it worked because it respected her autonomy and her lived experience.