The therapeutic relationship begins as soon as your client arrives at the intake appointment. Before you dive into the client’s story, take time to go over the logistical components of therapy. If needed, explain the intake forms they filled out, what they mean, and how they affect the therapy process.The intake session can also be a great time to set expectations around attendance, cancellation and rescheduling policies, and communication — including your working hours and preferred modes of contact. Doing so early helps get ahead of issues that, if left unaddressed, could contribute to your new client discontinuing therapy in the future.
Once logistics are out of the way, introduce your approach to therapy and what a client can expect from working with you to help them mentally solidify whether you’re the right clinician for them. Make space for the client to ask you any lingering questions about you or what it’s like to work with you as a therapist. Then, spend some time getting to know your client and their needs.
“The goal is to get them talking about who they are, what they’re looking for, and what’s worked or not worked for them in the past,” says Gagerman. “This helps you know where to start in therapy.”
You can also invite the client to share their availability and to schedule their next appointment if they’re ready. Gagerman typically explains at this point that it usually takes three sessions for her to come up with a comprehensive treatment plan.
“I tell the client to give me three sessions, and if they think it’s not a good fit, I’ll refer them without being offended,” she says.
How to balance clinical assessment with building connections
In addition to all of the above, some therapists like to complete assessments, like the GAD-7 or PHQ-9, during their first appointment with a new client. That makes sense, as these assessments help define a client’s symptoms and future treatment plan.
But clients may feel bombarded if you try to squeeze in intake forms, logistical discussions, and assessments right off the bat. During an intake session, check in regularly with your client to make sure they’re not getting overwhelmed. Give them the chance to ask questions, and clearly communicate about how your working relationship will evolve moving forward. (It won’t all be paperwork and clinical assessment!)